“You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.” (Matthew 5.38-39)
There are many billboards in my city that advertise the services of law firms, each with their own slogan. One in particular always stands out to me: “Don’t settle for less than you deserve.” I want to believe that this firm has helped many people find justice in our legal system, but their slogan expresses to me one of our most base human desires – to get what is mine by rights.
This makes sense in the realm of our culture. We do live in a society that values the biggest, the strongest, and the richest. In this realm, our safety and security needs to be defended from bigger and stronger and richer threats. Defending rights and privileges therefore makes sense.
But in Christ, God has transferred us to a different realm – to the “kingdom of God.” (Colossians 3.15) In this system, the rules of behavior are different, because our source of safety and security are different. We don’t have to be our own defender or advocate – the Lord is our advocate; God is our ultimate defender and provider. This looks “upside down” to the way our world lives.
My late father-in-law, Les, exemplified this heart attitude. After years of hard work and commitment, he had built his own engineering consulting business with two other partners. But, at the height of his career, his partners were able to restructure the business, essentially cutting Les out. He was basically robbed of his business and livelihood. Remarkably, he did not fight back or bring legal action. His reason was simple, as he expressed to his family: the Word of God tells us to turn the other cheek, and God will provide for us. In the years that followed, Les was able to start a new business that eventually was successful. And through this, God provided for Les and his wife in their final years. After he sold his business upon retirement, they were able to move into a specialized senior health center to care for growing health challenges. God indeed was faithful to his Word.
Paul asks, “Why not just accept the injustice and leave it at that? Why not let yourselves be cheated?” (1 Corinthians 6.7) Because we live in God’s different realm, and we can trust his power to provide.